tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post279257832641894909..comments2024-02-28T05:22:16.853-05:00Comments on I Won't Fear Love: MissingJuliahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09745262857388007041noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-90686505468471057232007-06-27T09:39:00.000-04:002007-06-27T09:39:00.000-04:00Anonymous, I am so sorry. There is nothing more to...Anonymous, I am so sorry. There is nothing more to say, except maybe that I hope you have friends and family to lean on in this horrible time.Juliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09745262857388007041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-24031290775836004562007-06-27T01:54:00.000-04:002007-06-27T01:54:00.000-04:00I never know how far back bloggers go, but I could...I never know how far back bloggers go, but I couldn't help but comment...my son died this March during labor. I was 39 weeks, 4 days; a placental abruption. We were utterly shocked when we arrived at the hospital...I too don't know what it is about this year, but I can only hope it goes quickly...I am so sorry for you & your family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-30620673789687228592007-06-15T12:05:00.000-04:002007-06-15T12:05:00.000-04:00my heart goes out to you, julia. i am thinking of ...my heart goes out to you, julia. i am thinking of you and the lost little ones.Jackiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15937097841962960849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-3571578323918244162007-06-11T20:44:00.000-04:002007-06-11T20:44:00.000-04:00I'm sorry Julia, this is so fresh, so hard for you...I'm sorry Julia, this is so fresh, so hard for you, so terribly awful...Aureliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13691032415028867902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-40451610866852805972007-06-11T09:56:00.000-04:002007-06-11T09:56:00.000-04:00This post brought tears to my eyes. New graves - t...This post brought tears to my eyes. New graves - that hurts, deeply. <BR/><BR/>I'm so sorry you're able to work the camp this year. <BR/><BR/>You're going to have such a busy month. I hope that's a good thing.Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03887313952590843057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-85628041214231607272007-06-11T00:32:00.000-04:002007-06-11T00:32:00.000-04:00Hi, I just stopped in via Gains & Losses. Thanks ...Hi, I just stopped in via Gains & Losses. Thanks for this beautiful post. I am so sorry for your loss, and for how much you are missing your son. I wish you peace.Allyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15264625893829690986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-81940909812346919862007-06-10T22:50:00.000-04:002007-06-10T22:50:00.000-04:00I am so sorry. I understand how you feel about the...I am so sorry. I understand how you feel about the new babies showing up; a few days after the funeral another baby's grave was added. We were so sad and angry that another family was in ruins.wannabe momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00975160438211356349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-57309687688141124222007-06-10T17:49:00.000-04:002007-06-10T17:49:00.000-04:00your last line..."i don't know what it is that i m...your last line..."i don't know what it is that i miss about him. i just do" is something i've been trying to get my own mind around for a long time, now. <BR/><BR/>with a baby, what is there that's specific, that you can articulate and have other people understand? and yet still, even now, i long for him. him. not just a random baby, but him. <BR/><BR/>i know you miss A.Bonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14403701620708365171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-58950474509034355662007-06-10T13:46:00.000-04:002007-06-10T13:46:00.000-04:00I can picture the scene you have described so perf...I can picture the scene you have described so perfectly. I wish no other family ever had to go through this. That's what I think when I see evidence of more losses or hear about them. I wish I was the only one, because I know how much it hurts. I'm sorry.meghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00113578396438869433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-74798637713922553752007-06-10T00:05:00.000-04:002007-06-10T00:05:00.000-04:00Oh, what a heartbreaking picture you have painted....Oh, what a heartbreaking picture you have painted. And even more so, because I know it is true and not just an artistic image, or storyline in a book. <BR/><BR/>I can never decide if I miss having a gravesite to visit, or if I am glad that I don't. I guess I really would rather I not be faced with the decision at all.<BR/><BR/>I know you miss your son. I'm so sorry.Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05528541804521203406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-9750694857569622082007-06-09T10:47:00.000-04:002007-06-09T10:47:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry.I'm so sorry.Catherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01160908955133304449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-62934021301087497732007-06-09T10:16:00.000-04:002007-06-09T10:16:00.000-04:00In just the way you've described, I sometimes feel...In just the way you've described, I sometimes feel so sorry for other people who have lost babies, thinking there must be something I can do. But there isn't. <BR/><BR/>I imagine you crying in the cemetery and I want to cry too.niobehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10685766216611639434noreply@blogger.com