tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post5728440700693236659..comments2024-02-28T05:22:16.853-05:00Comments on I Won't Fear Love: Wondering, slightly off-topicJuliahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09745262857388007041noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-56894207223644987812012-04-18T09:44:42.712-04:002012-04-18T09:44:42.712-04:00Nice blog postNice blog postwaste disposal londonhttp://www.waste-rus.co.uknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-25420448301149494942011-12-25T09:44:21.752-05:002011-12-25T09:44:21.752-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.bykov.publichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13198856690221792384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-63855109871467995422011-12-18T12:38:07.786-05:002011-12-18T12:38:07.786-05:00Hello, I have been searching the internet for anyo...Hello, I have been searching the internet for anyone who possibly has the same condition - I have silent thyroiditis. If you are, may I ask how are you doing? My silent thyroiditis is debilititating.<br /><br />How long were you debilitated? I was diagnosed 08/01/10 and am over 16.5 months into this. I feel like I will never get better. My thyroid numbers have improved, but I am still glued to the couch with exercise intolerance.<br /><br />Thank you, and I sincerely hope you are well by this time. Please, I beg you to contact me at readyforwhat7 at yahoo dot com if you have any information or personal experience on this issue. THANK YOU!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-26022974290921941822011-11-19T14:52:55.317-05:002011-11-19T14:52:55.317-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.The Reverse Affecthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15868789599354340153noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-17085907026531312732011-08-12T08:54:41.954-04:002011-08-12T08:54:41.954-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-16046469107497635302011-07-05T11:34:45.493-04:002011-07-05T11:34:45.493-04:00I really agree. The way the media cover grief jus...I really agree. The way the media cover grief just isn't helpful. It means that when people have to face the real thing they have no resources with which to do it. AliceAlicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02472729169216109749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-82700858682765097802011-06-14T07:50:25.156-04:002011-06-14T07:50:25.156-04:00Well written!Well written!Lana Bananahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15562550471269556067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-78993046151789998742011-05-30T01:59:13.833-04:002011-05-30T01:59:13.833-04:00Niobe? Like in, Niobe? Oh, my heart, be still!
Th...Niobe? Like in, Niobe? Oh, my heart, be still!<br /><br />There's no such thing as closure, as everybody knows. It's only the innocent who can say such a thing.dianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06410649274792171372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-43926856492414483802011-05-13T22:35:40.717-04:002011-05-13T22:35:40.717-04:00I worked really hard for closure. Not sure where i...I worked really hard for closure. Not sure where it came from after the waters were so still but today in a most unprofessional manner I lost it. I don't know. I guess there's never closure, there's just learning to repress. I'm okay with that.Cloacahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17893355318469596644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-38237798195655784582011-05-13T18:51:34.591-04:002011-05-13T18:51:34.591-04:00What a great post. If I hear one more time that s...What a great post. If I hear one more time that soon we'll find closure or just "get over it" I think I'll scream.Peghttp://lifeofpeg-familyrocks.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-4056710939953336302011-05-07T22:02:33.173-04:002011-05-07T22:02:33.173-04:00Always good to see a post from you in my reader, J...Always good to see a post from you in my reader, Julia. : ) I heard & thought the exact same things. Closure is BS, indeed.loribethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09272814565916935113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-72317469411478434192011-05-06T14:23:51.164-04:002011-05-06T14:23:51.164-04:00Closure is bullshit. Totally with you. (Also, happ...Closure is bullshit. Totally with you. (Also, happy to see you.)Magpiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15460136246441367993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-1342600937484234332011-05-03T22:29:09.118-04:002011-05-03T22:29:09.118-04:00Oh, I'm with Wiley-- I don't do feeds beca...Oh, I'm with Wiley-- I don't do feeds because I think checking is sorta fun instead. And I am wowed to see those I love - Niobe and Kymberli responding as well. <br /><br />This cheering has been odd, hasn't it. You may cheer that we may be closer to peace but really. Does anyone believe that? There is no closure - the babes are right - you were sad yesterday and you will be sad tomorrow that your beloved is gone. Doesn't matter is any bastard died along the way. <br /><br />Missed you. Miss Niobe. Miss Kymberli. But glad to see you both in this thread of comments.tree town galhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07878804287937293489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-13328580741392092342011-05-03T22:20:42.336-04:002011-05-03T22:20:42.336-04:00Anderson Cooper, whose brother and father both die...Anderson Cooper, whose brother and father both died, actually told one of the 9/11 widows that he thought closure wasn't possible. She used the word, and he asked her if she really thought that closure was possible (or words to that effect).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-70956588331316503382011-05-03T21:59:08.206-04:002011-05-03T21:59:08.206-04:00I really need to turn on the TV sometimes. I didn&...I really need to turn on the TV sometimes. I didn't know people were celebrating... not sure how I feel about that. Maybe reporters are using 'closure' as a secret word to the less-nice-sounding 'revenge'.<br /><br />I really hope there is a power-void in Al qaeda, cause that is the only thing that really matters.<br /><br />Nice to see a post from you again, although I have no room to talk!Ya Chunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08816837461370619194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-38805003398387877272011-05-03T19:31:41.437-04:002011-05-03T19:31:41.437-04:00Yes, to all of this.Yes, to all of this.ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06347057746449071812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-5618561574459073352011-05-03T19:07:50.788-04:002011-05-03T19:07:50.788-04:00Absolutely. Elizabeth really did say it best, in s...Absolutely. Elizabeth really did say it best, in so many ways.<br />"Closure is bullshit".<br />Nice to hear from you though, even in these circumstances.<br />xoHope's Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04984543289642681339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-49685999757967649952011-05-03T18:31:46.982-04:002011-05-03T18:31:46.982-04:00Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I agree. I r...Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I agree. I really do. <br /><br />Questions like "does this bring closure?" remind me of the oldie, but goodie, "how do you feel?" asked of the loved one/survivor of a horrible tragedy or disaster. I always used to give the finger to the newscaster and say, "How you think I feel?" (Four-letter words and finger not mutually exclusive."<br /><br />Grief is grief. It's all different, but it all sucks. And there is no fucking closure.<br /><br />(Glad to "hear" your voice again.)Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03812637630030228124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-27048154567995278362011-05-03T17:44:50.468-04:002011-05-03T17:44:50.468-04:00Yeah, I have been cringing at these closure statem...Yeah, I have been cringing at these closure statements, like the death of a monster could bring anyone closure, or make any grief okay. I have closure, on my jacket, but not in my heart.<br /><br />Sending you love, missing you, hoping to do some kind of babylost meetup this summer. You and Niobe up for something like that?still life angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15150141781089602529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-73422505443034326032011-05-03T17:37:15.115-04:002011-05-03T17:37:15.115-04:00You've given voice to my thoughts on this, exa...You've given voice to my thoughts on this, exactly.JoyAndSorrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03923776278331956351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-22998798669342606592011-05-03T16:05:11.677-04:002011-05-03T16:05:11.677-04:00I'm still here and reading and of course, wond...I'm still here and reading and of course, wondering where the heck you've been (as if I should talk, considering my almost-pregnancy-long hiatus from my blog). <br /><br />It's funny (in the way that things like this can only be) that I communicated the thread of what you've written here to my kids when explaining to them what happened the next morning. It's such a tricky thing, explaining why people were cheering about the death of someone, even if that someone was a villian. I explained that people were cheering because for much of America (and the world), bin Laden's demise was the conclusion of a very long, very difficult story. They already have an understand of 9/11, so this wasn't particularly difficult for them to get. <br /><br />As we watched the news (as we do everyday as we busy ourselves with our morning routine), some reporter asked a 9/11 surviving family member, "Do you feel closure?" I asked the kids if they thought the friends and family members of those lost in 9/11 felt like the "story" was over for them. In their wisdom, they pretty much said, "No." Jaiden said, "I wouldn't ever stop feeling sad even if the person who killed you was dead themselves." <br /><br />From the mouths of babes...<br /><br /><br />(Aside - she doesn't write for herself anymore, but it's like a nugget of sarcastic gold whenever I find classic niobe comment sprinkled somewhere in the 'sphere.)JW Moxiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16865232770753428076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-17440369678397705522011-05-03T15:44:57.331-04:002011-05-03T15:44:57.331-04:00I spent the last day and a half same place most yo...<i>I spent the last day and a half same place most you likely did-- glued to screens and speakers, catching up on details and coverage.</i><br /><br />Y'know, I read this and said to myself, gosh, I really didn't think Julia was the type to get so caught up in the Royal Wedding.<br /><br />Sigh.niobenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8214358853640360621.post-75180054099612695392011-05-03T15:40:49.532-04:002011-05-03T15:40:49.532-04:00Still think the dwarves of grief sound like a grea...Still think the dwarves of grief sound like a great idea... I wasn't following any blogs that would have covered it 2.5 years ago, but NPR covered the book right about the time our son was born 10 weeks early and our daughter was born still after six weeks of hospital bedrest following her demise. Read it in the NICU on the Kindle app and have never highlighted so much of a book...<br /><br />and in answer to the question of is anybody still here, I'm not sure how/where I added you to my reader feed, but must have been sometime in the last four months, so not "still" here, but here.Wileyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17276125021264602754noreply@blogger.com